For centuries, women succumbed to what was expected of them. Sadly, their roles would comprise of chores (house hold), caring after the husband, and basically being a good wife. This film focused on the struggles of changing the norm for/of the women.
Named as the most conservative school, girls who study in Wellesley College are being taught the proper etiquette and manner. One thing I noticed was their professors never failed to tell them that after college, their first agenda should be their wedding. Marriage, even when you are still studying, is widely accepted AND TOLERATED in Wellesley. You would even be excused in class for your honeymoon. This trend kept all the girls' eyes and ears open for plausible news of engagement. It made them hopeless romantics who dreamed of nothing else but brand new washing machines and a complete rack of laundry soaps. It made them vulnerable to the eyes of love. And to the eyes of men.
One instance was when an outstanding student, Betty Warren, got married to the guy she thought is the man of her dreams. When they got hitched, he cheated on her. The norm during the 1950s was to get women married and to rate them based on how well they serve their husbands. So the frenzy was all about getting hitched, the kind of guy that women got married to did not matter.
It is one of the things that unconsciously oppressed women during that time. Unconsciously because it was the accepted standard. Until Ms. Watson (Julia Roberts) came in to teach art history in Wellesley College. She had a different mindset. Ms. Watson never believed in rushing to marry. She is the counter balance of the era and, as blind as the oppression made its victims, she was hated by everybody because of her beliefs. But in the end, she made everybody realize her point. That women shouldn't get stuck on being married. They could multitask and be a lawyer at the same time.
One thing that really struck me was the part where Betty Warren wrote about their school nurse's decision in distributing contraceptives to students, which served as reason for the old-fashioned campus heads to fire her. It could be a metaphor for the current state of our country. Little does the women of the Philippines realize that they are being oppressed. Women in this country are being withheld of making choices regarding reproduction by not approving of the RH bill. The Reproductive Health bill would protect women and their choices to whether to conceive a child or not. The bill would simply state that women are free to make their own decisions; that women are allowed to resist; that women have a say in having sex. Contrary to the church's beliefs, the bill does not promote promiscuity, it promotes freedom--which is what
everybody should be experiencing in a democratic country. But no! The Philippine government chose to focus on protecting other things... On protecting the
men that sat on the high tables of the country, who think of themselves as susceptible to the possible internet assailants. But clearly they are just a bunch of paranoids whose only concern is to keep their names clean in time for the elections.
P.S.
Sir Rondina,
If ever I won't be able make it to class on Tuesday, simply means I'm behind bars already. HAHAHA.